Betsy Writes,
I’ve been alone for a big part of my life and haven’t had much success in relationships. Recently I met a man who seemed perfect at first. We’ve now been together about 6 months and I’m starting to see flaws in him – things that I don’t know if I can move past (he has trust issues, anger issues, etc.) However, I don’t want to break up with him because I’m afraid I won’t find anyone else. What should I do?

· It’s very important to check in with yourself and figure out what your negotiable and non-negotiable characteristics are in a mate the relationship you want to be in.

· When I work with my clients, they become very clear about what they are looking for in a partner and relationship—they don’t get involved with someone if they don’t have the traits and values that are fundamentally important to them in a relationship. This is what dating is about—figuring out what you want and can live with.

· You also want to make sure that you give a relationship a chance even if you see flaws– We all have them—you decide what you are willing to work with and what you cannot live with.

You should never settle for anyone– because then the universe will not send you what you ultimately want and deserve.

Best Wishes to you Betsy. And for all of you watching feel free to email me at Rachel@theRelationshipSuite.com if you want me to answer any relationship questions

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Erica Writes: I broke up with my boyfriend six months ago and recently have been dating quite a bit. However, every time I meet someone I like and we get close he pushes me away after 3-4months and I end up getting very hurt.  This has become a pattern in my life-can you please give me relationship advice?

Erica, you need to figure out if you are indeed ready for a relationship

  1. If you are, then focus on how you are behaving with these guys you are dating and what they are telling you through their actions and signals.
  2. It seems that you may be attracting men with commitment issues and could be missing the signs.  Men give off plenty of signs within the first 3 months of dating.  The issue could be with them, not you.
  3. Dating is not just about going out—it is important to pay attention to how the guy you are seeing is acting with you. Is he behaving in ways you like? Does he have traits you admire? Dating is a skill where you learn about people and what you will settle for and will not settle for and it can also teach you a lot about yourself and your needs—sometimes the universe even sends us challenging situations and people that test us so that we are forced to grow and learn about ourselves. If we are willing to do the work, this ultimately helps us evolve and choose better people for us.

Best Wishes to you Erica. And for all of you watching feel free to email me at Rachel@theRelationshipSuite.com if you want me to answer any relationship questions.

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